I also think that us females are quick to overanalyze a lot of things or think too far ahead too soon. Especially since guys aren’t as direct or care/think as deeply as us, it might make us feel like we have no other choice but to.
Convinced that I could talk to him and help him finally get over her, we hit it off and days turned into weeks. Weeks turned into months but the joke was on me because as we started to get close, we became besties and the inevitable happened- I started to catch feelings for him.
You have to be a good friend to have a good friend! I believe that any friendship can recover from anything if both people genuinely want it to but it is trickier if you’re in a situation where you do cross boundaries because once you do, there’s no turning back.