Being born 10 pounds, I continued to be a chubby kid in my childhood but the fact that I was never crossed my mind until that doctor’s visit. No one had ever pointed it out to me before in such a negative way and it really hit me hard. I became desperate and even a bit obsessed with trying to get rid of the pounds.
Something clicked in me when I finally woke up and realized that I am one of one. A rare and bomb combination of heart, beauty, and brains with a voice that mattered. Now I am learning that it matters on an even bigger scale than I imagined so it’s exciting to see everything coming even more full circle.
I embraced each situation I was given and opened my mind to be taken on the journey because I knew no matter what, I would be molded into who I am meant to be anyways. Most importantly, I always do my part. I put in the work.
I know it sounds and feels like it’s been forever but the longer you’re in there, the better. When you finally burst out of it, you’ll be glowing up all by yourself from all the growth and confidence you radiant. That’s what makes you beautiful while others may be fading out.
It isn’t linear by any means but it’s real and it’s progress. Regardless my circumstance, I find myself and I stay true to her.
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Hi Shantel. Thank you for writing such positive and uplifting messages. I appreciate your openness and the candor you emit with each posting. This one was very refreshing to read and it helps me to realize that we are all different and on an individual journey through life and we should appreciate every experience that comes along with it.
I hope more young girls do read your blog and accept the messages presented, this would really help with boosting self esteem down Confidence that I am also familiar with experiencing when I was also a teenager.
Such an amazing perspective, we need more positivity like you in social media and in the world.. keep it up !! This is beautiful
Thank you so much for taking the time out to write this thoughtful comment. I truly appreciate it and look forward to empowering as many women as I can! It all starts with supporting each other. We can definitely do with more love in this world!